Self | Writing
You Don’t Need Anyone’s Permission To Start
Why announcing your goal can hurt your odds of achieving it.
Grace Hopper was one of the first women admirals in the Navy and was a known genius. After completing her PhD at Yale in 1934, she had a soaring career in the military and became a legend of computer programming.
Admiral Hopper wouldn’t have intimidated you at first glance. She stood only 5'3, with wispy white hair and a gravelly soft voice. Yet she was a stern manager and unafraid to shake things up. She said, “Humans are allergic to change. They love to say, ‘We’ve always done it this way.’ I try to fight that. That’s why I have a clock on my wall that runs counter-clockwise.”
She also popularized one of the most misused quotes in history, “It’s easier to ask forgiveness than to get permission.” Her message was less for cheating on a spouse and more to encourage workers to strive for autonomy.
Her problem was that government and military sectors can play by the rules — to a fault. She didn’t want employees sitting around waiting for someone’s approval before testing their ability, innovating, and trying to learn. Her approach is one I eventually embraced, but not without some initial heartburn.
